This is the hardest, and yet the easiest, part of being great with women. All our clients worry about this when really they should be concentrating on their fashion, body language and conversation.

But hey we we’ve got to give people what they want (even if it doesn’t really matter how you start the conversation).

Here are my top 5 tips for approaching that nerve-inducing stunner in a very pretentious West End Bar:

1. What you say matters not a jot. It’s how you say it. Be slow and clear (think James Bond), maintain good eye contact and come in a little higher energy than the group. If they are sitting and having a quiet conversation you can be a little more energetic and if they are laughing uproariously then you have to be really high energy. The key is to be a compelling source of entertainment in the opening interaction.
2. Play to your strengths. If you are a loud and confident guy then go for the energised groups. If you are quiet and more reserved, then groups that are quieter could be a better option. Be dictated here by your mood- so, if you are normally quiet but you feel high energy in the moment, then go for the high energy girl.
3. Dress well. It’s frightening how guys handicap themselves by dressing badly. How can you expect to get the best women if you look rubbish? It’s possible but very unlikely. In terms of style we do have some articles (link) on this but generally have a look which stands out. So I am more city gent whereas Milton, for example is a bit edgier and cooler in the way he dresses. This article from our blog explain his in a little more detail.
4. OK OK I know you want to know what to say. Well In our book Get Girls I go through this in detail but I will summarise here: You can use a conversation starter which can be low risk (where can I find a great bar for dancing?) through to more sexual higher risk (do I look gay in this shirt? could you rate my arse out of ten?) Or an authentic opener. An authentic opener will be where you say what is on your mind. For example, you see a girl and think she looks cute tell her; you see a girl and don’t know what to say… go and tell her you wanted to chat her up but didn’t know what to say.
5. Know what you are going to say after then opener. Have some topics lined up and ready to go so, if the conversation does falter, you will have some pre-prepared topics to fall back on.

Happy approaching!

So you are finally found a nice attractive young woman and move past the first date? Now you must be asking yourself what next?  Depending on the type of response you have got from her, you can either move on or take the relationship to the next level. Meanwhile, you should look out for some of the red flags that warn you not to get involved with certain types of people. While dating, you should never ignore your instincts; carefully consider whether you really want to be with someone before becoming serious.  It is very easy to fall in love but it is extremely difficult to stay in love if you have chosen the wrong person. Continue Reading

Have you ever been cheated upon? If the answer is yes then you will certainly know all about the pain. This article is all about looking out for the little warning signs that women give out when they start cheating on you. The aim here is to help you bail out of a destructive relationship rather than stay and suffer the pain in silence. Cheating spouses can cause you a lot of stress, it is extremely hard to point out while people cheat but the person staying in the dark always ends up emotionally bruised and battered. Continue Reading

So you like this girl a lot. May be she is your colleague, attends the same gym or maybe she is in your class. You have been friends with her for a couple of months and you guys hit it off pretty well, only thing is that you want to become her boyfriend and she still wants to be “just friends”. This article is all about teaching those hopeless romantics how to get out from the dead-end also known as the “friend zone” and emerge as a boyfriend in front of her eyes. Continue Reading

In any relationship, communication is the main thing that keeps the relationship going. Where comes any communication gap, there comes a possibility of breaking that relationship. When it comes to a relationship between a man and woman, it requires a substantial ingredient of communication. If there is right communication, there is a chance of getting all things right in that relationship. Anyway, have you ever found it difficult to approach to a stranger and start a conversation? Do you get nervous when approaching some one? If yes, then let me tell you this is a common nervousness that every man has inside him while approaching a woman. Continue Reading

It is said that women are the most beautiful creation of God on this earth. According to men, it’s very difficult to understand them and probably it is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Actually, it is not that much difficult to understand a woman, all they need is care and love all the time. Women prefer attention and appreciation in whatever they do and men who know it better can make any women of his choice, fall in love with him. Continue Reading

There were times when women only used to go on dates with men who were selected by their parents. With changing times, girls started going out with men referred by her friends, relatives and family. Of course courtship after meeting a man in college, school or any other place has always been there. Blind dates culture also started off and people simply loved it. Online dating has been there for a long time now and with each passing day it is getting better and better. Many people talk about dating rules for men and hardly anyone who talks about dating rules for women. Let us have a look at some of the online dating rules for women:

1.Do not initiate any conversation online from your end. Let the guy approach you. Often girls or women who approach guys online are considered to be available and are not taken seriously.

2.There can be many situations in which you might not like the attitude or character of a certain person online in the chat room. Block him immediately. There is no need to entertain unwanted people.

3.In case there is an option to post a photograph then opt for the best picture you have of yourself. Never post a celebrity’s picture. It does not look nice.

4.In case there is any guy interested in you and approaches you through instant message or email then there is no need to reply immediately. Again try and show that you are not waiting for some guy.

5.In case you are interested in a guy who has approached you via e mail then do not reply immediately. Wait for at least two days before replying to that mail. If he is really interested in you, he will wait for your reply.

6.It is highly advisable not to share your real demographic details, name, telephone numbers in first go.

7.Keep a separate e mail address for such things. Never use your original personal e mail id for online dating.

8.Never lie about anything related to your appearance, size or locality. It is better to avoid subjects which you do not want to discuss rather than lying about them. You never know if your conversation gets to the next level.

9.Everything should be slow and gradual in case of online dating. Do not jump to the conclusions about a guy you met in a chat room. Take your own time before you decide to meet him in person.

Online dating is pretty popular amongst all segments of ages across globe. There are positive side to it and negative as well. It is always better to take prevention rather than cure. So, be cautious while you flirt with men online. Disclosing a lot of information to an unknown man can be dangerous hence it should always be kept in mind that the online dating process is very slow ad needs to be treated in a slow manner.

Everyone needs a companion. Girls today are more independent and they want a partner to share their success and joy in life. If a girl follows few rules while she is dating, she can keep the guy in her love till the time she wants to. Many people are against following these rules because they say that love is natural. Well, of course love is natural but there are things which can be used to beautify it and make it more enjoyable.

Let us have a closer look at general dating rules for women:

1.Look good: It is important to look like a start all the time. Girls have many options to look great. A visit to a beauty salon and you transform yourself in to a princess. Beautiful hair style, good facial and attractive make up can do the trick for any girl. It is important to be always prim and proper in front of the guy you are dating. Leave him guessing if you wake up like this only.

2.Hold secrets: Men love women who hold secrets. Try and be as mysterious as possible in front of the guy in order to leave him guessing about you. There is never any kind of need to disclose everything to your man.

3.Do not over do the meetings: Initially, do not be available whenever he wants to meet you. Go for quality rather than quantity. Meet him as often as it is required not as possible. Keep the dates and the meetings brief so that he keep asking for more.

4.Keep yourself fit: Join some yoga classes, gym or swimming classes. The idea is to be in shape always. A single view of flab can ruin the situation for you. Be like a beauty goddess for him.

5.Do not discuss past: Never ever try and talk about your ex boyfriends in front of your current date. Many women think that they should discuss about last loves in order to get more attention from the current boyfriend or make him jealous. Well, this often results in fights, suspicion ad break off.

Apart from these rules, below mentioned things should be looked out for as a reason to dump your man:

1.Any signs of excessive possessiveness mean that this can be bad for you in future. Just dump him there and then.

2.If he tries to involve himself in your shopping schedules with your girl friends or asks you to cancel other programs for him, he is not the right kind of guy for you so just dump him.

3.Are his shoes smelly? Is there a hygiene issue? Well, you would not want to stay on with such kind of a guy. So, you know when you need to get rid of him.

4.If the guy talks about kids and family and long relationships on the first date, you should try and reconsider your decision to stay on with him.

For several generations a wedding night was considered to be special due to the reason that it was the first time when the couple would have sex. But with the drift in time, it has become rare for a couple to have their first night sexual encounter on a wedding night due to the decreasing importance of premarital virginity. That does not mean that a first night in a wedding need not be considered special. There are chances that the newlywed lady might be interested in the intercourse act and it is good for you to make a serious effort in this direction to make the night more memorable. This has effect on the future sex life as husband and wife. The general question on the ways to deal with a first night after wedding was put forward by Mr. Alex M. here we put forward some suggestions to make the wedding night more memorable. Continue Reading

There are several reasons why you should bring up the wild and erotic side of your mate. The first and the most important reason is to bring out a hotter sex from the act. There are chances that you might have seen her wild in sex earlier but that might have faded away. Here are some ways using which you can bring out the wilder side of her in sex. Continue Reading