My girlfriend of 3-years decided that it was time to allow me to pop the cherry. She was anxious to know how it feels to have sex. Anxious to feel that thing that makes a man and woman mourn and say all crazy sorts of things they won’t have ordinary said to each other. She wasn’t a novice to sexual stimulation though.

She attended one of those all-girls boarding schools were little girls experiment with one another. According to her, it was fun at first but she later detested seeing other girls in the school inserting three, four, and five fingers into each other.

Fast forward to adulthood, she is a college graduate now but haven’t had sex with a man before. In fact, her hymen is still intact. Not long ago, she told me how she had finally made up her mind to start having sex. I wanted to do it there and then but she couldn’t withstand pain. So what should a brother do?

If I don’t do it, she might get someone else to do it, so I decided to come up with quite a different method, though slow, but an effective way of deflowering a girl with low pain threshold. I spread the operation over a week.

The very first day, we were just playing around the clitoris with a sexual lubricant. You can use Vaseline. I stimulated her and gave her a sense of what she has actually been missing. I wasn’t in a rush to insert my ‘’man-business’’ but I took it easy and dedicated the first day just for her and her alone.

The second day was a little bit different. After going out and coming back to the apartment and watching some pornographic film that I had hired the day before, we went straight into the bedroom. I repeated what I did the day before. I gave her fun and at the tail end of the game, it was time to use my penis to stimulate the outer part of her virginal. The goal here was to make her accustomed to having my dick around her private part.

The third day, I tried to insert a well-lubricated finger into her. It was a gradual process. The virginal was well lubricated and I wasn’t looking for a deep penetration at first—just wanted to make her come. I did it for quite a while and just as she was about to come I pushed the finger deep inside her vaginal. She could feel the pain. She had some slight bruises down there and so I stopped for the day.

On the fourth day, I inserted one finger and just when she was very excited, I gently slipped a second finger into her and guided her to orgasm. Notice that we have succeeded in having two fingers into her. I tried again with three fingers: first inserting two fingers and then gently with the third one.

The fifth day into the operation was a payback day. This was the time I inserted my penis after using my three fingers for a while until she was very excited.

There you go the lowdown on how I deflower a girl who had a low pain threshold.

We have heard many things about masturbation. Some people say masturbation is not harmful at all and see no reason why we should be talking about it. But masturbation is a precursor to clinical depression, erectile dysfunction, and it is a recipe for trouble in the future. It is like burning a candle from the bottom.

Depression & Addiction

Masturbation is a self-inflicted injury that if done more often could mess up a man’s life. Masturbation is capable of reducing a man to nothing. It can make you take no action and thus you find yourself incapable of handling minor challenges which are integral part of life. Once masturbation has gone beyond an occasional thing, it then becomes a deep down obsession, an addictive world that drags its inhabitants into the deep abyss of hell.

Once masturbation becomes addictive, and it is usually the case. The individual will always abhor the urge to want to release on any given opportunity. Someone who is addicted to masturbation can masturbate more than 5 times per day even when the penis is not erect.

Failure

Masturbation causes an individual to fail in almost every endeavour. It causes loss of memory and reduces concentration. Just because you can’t concentrate, you tend to mess up on almost everything. In fact, it affects one’s life in every ramification. People deeply addicted to masturbation tend to spend more time in bed each morning and they are known to be procrastinators.

Erectile Dysfunction

An individual’s sexual power is limited in supply. Sexual power is at its best in our early days of life; gets to its peak when we are 25 years old and may start diminishing some time in our 40s. So masturbation distorts this natural process and create erectile dysfunctions. It is only sad to find out that a young man who has everything going for him and just because he had indulged in excessive masturbation earlier in life, would later found out after marriage that he has loss his sexual power and just cannot function as a real man. This is disgraceful. There is almost nothing that could be done to restore his sexual power to what it should be. Nowadays, medications could boost ones sexual strength and cure one of erectile dysfunctions but that is just temporary. Even after he stops masturbating, it may take a long time for the natural sexual power to come back.

Marital Problem

Excessive masturbation affects ones behaviour negatively. It turns people that are not brilliant upstairs into geeks. It is suicidal for one to lose out in the world of showbiz and still be found wanting in terms of academics. A man that masturbates often cannot handle a relation. Even drugs to fix erectile dysfunctions cannot help keep one from being unsuccessful in relationships. Human relationships are full of challenges and our relationships are dependent on the way we manage those problems that nature throw at us. Someone who masturbates a lot lacks the resonance to deal and resolve relationship challenges.

Some relationships hit platonic friendship status and hung in there. The woman is happy but the man is not. I’ve wade through that path before. She wasn’t ready to move it any step further. It was so annoying because I started everything on the hope of becoming her friend and later her lover, but it turned out that she got too complacent with us as friends that she wanted nothing else.

I worshipped the sand under her feet but she would rather prefer I became a Catholic priest. As I was scratching my heard in search for that Jimmy from the bottle formula, it turns out that on the summer of 2009 I got a flash of genius. Come on, women like the ignoring game.

So how did I use this to my favour?

First, I stopped asking her out. Whenever her call is coming through my mobile cellular, I’d give it some time before I pick the call and when I start talking with her, I’d just jut in a lie about a girlfriend who came round to ask for my input on her upcoming birthday party. A minute into the conversation, I’d place the phone on the table, without dropping the call, and go to sleep.

Women hate this, but the following day I’d show up with a flower and told her how sorry I was. At this stage, I was only trying to be a good friend not a lover and thus she started viewing me as a man who is hard to get. When she finally agreed to go out with me, the next big challenge pops up. How do I see the inside of her jeans?

I left everything funny and strictly platonic until we landed at her apartment. Once inside we started kissing and touching but she didn’t want us to go down to business. She promise next time but I wanted it there and then. After some foreplay that wasn’t helping my man business, I decided to use the ultimate technique.

Gently, I moved away from the couch, turned on the TV, laid flat on my back with my hands behind my head. I wasn’t angry but kept starring at the roof like the good God is communicated with me. She started feeling uncomfortable and asking tons of questions, which I answered reluctantly. Then the time I was waiting for finally arrived; she crawled up to me like a Siberian Tiger, gave me some soft touch with her lips and the rest, I’d say, was fornication.

For several generations a wedding night was considered to be special due to the reason that it was the first time when the couple would have sex. But with the drift in time, it has become rare for a couple to have their first night sexual encounter on a wedding night due to the decreasing importance of premarital virginity. That does not mean that a first night in a wedding need not be considered special. There are chances that the newlywed lady might be interested in the intercourse act and it is good for you to make a serious effort in this direction to make the night more memorable. This has effect on the future sex life as husband and wife. The general question on the ways to deal with a first night after wedding was put forward by Mr. Alex M. here we put forward some suggestions to make the wedding night more memorable. Continue Reading

There are several reasons why you should bring up the wild and erotic side of your mate. The first and the most important reason is to bring out a hotter sex from the act. There are chances that you might have seen her wild in sex earlier but that might have faded away. Here are some ways using which you can bring out the wilder side of her in sex. Continue Reading

Having a conversation on sex with a woman can be quite interesting and one of its kind experience. The other day when I enquired the same thing from my girlfriend about her wishes regarding her man in bed, her replies were not that I expected to hear. She mumbled out a list of errors committed by her boyfriend. Continue Reading

Crystal was right in his character in Harry met sally when he said that women cant be friends with men as there is always the part of sex that comes into play between them. It can be said that friendships with a female started just because you were attracted towards them to strike up a conversation. When it became clean that there is no possibility of having a romantic relationship, that one thing could turn out to be platonic. It can be seen that sometimes friends also indulge in the same activities as are taken up by lovers like those of late night phone calls, dinner dates and even sex. Continue Reading

Most of the things about woman are not well known to men when it comes to activities in bedroom. This is because not all women will be so open to share their feelings with their male partners. Not all women have the same sex drive and this would vary from one woman to other woman but still there are certain things in sex that all woman agree upon. Continue Reading

Just picture it.  You are at the bar and that sexy little number with the naughty schoolgirl outfit has been giving you the eye all night long.  You know you could hit that with very little effort and you soon start to dream of all the things you could do to her once you got her back to her place.  But, would you really know what to do with Miss Hotty if you really did manage to get beneath her skirt?  If you are like most of us, you probably don’t even have a clue.  Sure, we all talk like we are the king in the sack, but the reality is that most of us wouldn’t know what to do with wet pussy if it hit us upside the head.  So, sit back and take some bedroom advice that comes directly from the source.

Mix It Up

“I hate it when a guy does the same old thing every time you hit the sack,” says Melanie.  “I like a guy to mix it up a little.  You know, sometimes it is sweet and romantic and other times he pounds you like a little whore.”

Of course, if we are talking about a one-nighter here, you don’t have to worry about mixing it up from time to time.  Just find what you are good at and show off the moves to your one night conquest.  If you are in a long-term relationship, on the other hand, try to avoid getting in a rut.

Guys tend to do the same thing every time they get between the sheets.  After all, you have found what works for you and it gets you off, so why make a change?  Unfortunately, the same isn’t true with women.  Most women I have talked to want you to change it up a little rather than sticking to the same old routine.  This doesn’t mean you need to hang from the chandeliers or break out with a ball gag each time you hook up, but try to vary the mood and the action in order to keep your girl interested.

Warm Her Up

If you are a bad lover, you will be getting off right at about the time your girl is ready to get going.  Treat your woman like that old classic car you love so much – don’t hop in, turn the key and hit the gas.  Rather, start her up, give her a rub down and check her gauges to make sure she is ready to go.

Many guys dread the thought of having to engage in foreplay.  After all, you don’t need time to get warmed up.  A couple touches in a few key places and you’re ready to go.  With women, however, you need to take a little more time to get her ready.  This doesn’t mean you have to munch her all night long before you can finally slip it to her.  But, try kissing her for awhile and rubbing on the outside of her panties before you slip a finger inside and primer her engine.  You will know she is ready when she starts to get moist and her clitoris starts to become engorged.

Spend Some Time with the Little Man in the Boat

Speaking of the clitoris, be certain to give the little fella some of your attention.  The reality is that many women can’t get off without having a certain amount of clitoral stimulation.  Remember that girl in the naughty school girl outfit?  A girl in a skirt offers great opportunities for a little clit action before going in.  Slip your hand up beneath her skirt and rub her clit through her panties in a circular fashion, starting off nice and slow and then working your way up to a higher speed while increasing the pressure.  By the time you are ready to slip those panties off, they will be soaking wet and she will be ready to jump your bones.

Work the Titties

“I hate it when guys jump right in and start mauling all over my breasts,” complains Melissa.  “I mean, I’m into boob action, but there is a right time and a wrong time, you know?”

No, I don’t know.  But, when I asked Melissa and the other girls I talked to about where things stand with the boobs, I found that playing with those lovely lumps is something you should work your way into.  In other words, if you start sucking and nibbling on her nipples before she has been heated up, it may not be a turn on at all.  In fact, some women find it to be a turn off.  “It’s too much like breastfeeding – it hurts,” complained one woman.

When you get her motor revving before you move in for the tits, on the other hand, something magical happens.  For some reason, most of the women I talked to said that playing with their tits after they have been warmed up is a real turn on.  Some even said sucking on their tits is one way to push them over the pleasure plateau – but only if it is done after they are good and worked up.

So, although you may be anxious to just grab that little hottie at the bar and have your way with it, remember that the ladies talk to each other and that a shitty role in the hay may get you blackballed on many lists.  Take your time and make sure you leave her something to remember you by – even if you never plan on hooking up with the same girl twice.