For several generations a wedding night was considered to be special due to the reason that it was the first time when the couple would have sex. But with the drift in time, it has become rare for a couple to have their first night sexual encounter on a wedding night due to the decreasing importance of premarital virginity. That does not mean that a first night in a wedding need not be considered special. There are chances that the newlywed lady might be interested in the intercourse act and it is good for you to make a serious effort in this direction to make the night more memorable. This has effect on the future sex life as husband and wife. The general question on the ways to deal with a first night after wedding was put forward by Mr. Alex M. here we put forward some suggestions to make the wedding night more memorable. Continue Reading

There are several reasons why you should bring up the wild and erotic side of your mate. The first and the most important reason is to bring out a hotter sex from the act. There are chances that you might have seen her wild in sex earlier but that might have faded away. Here are some ways using which you can bring out the wilder side of her in sex. Continue Reading

The only thought that you may get on seeing your girl friend or wife when she is arching her back and moaning and competing with Meg Ryan without her presence is that she is either faking or you are uneducated of your ability to please her. It is highly important for you to check out your ability to please her and if that does not happen, here are some of the tricks that you can use to make her orgasm. Continue Reading

Having a conversation on sex with a woman can be quite interesting and one of its kind experience. The other day when I enquired the same thing from my girlfriend about her wishes regarding her man in bed, her replies were not that I expected to hear. She mumbled out a list of errors committed by her boyfriend. Continue Reading

Crystal was right in his character in Harry met sally when he said that women cant be friends with men as there is always the part of sex that comes into play between them. It can be said that friendships with a female started just because you were attracted towards them to strike up a conversation. When it became clean that there is no possibility of having a romantic relationship, that one thing could turn out to be platonic. It can be seen that sometimes friends also indulge in the same activities as are taken up by lovers like those of late night phone calls, dinner dates and even sex. Continue Reading

Most of the things about woman are not well known to men when it comes to activities in bedroom. This is because not all women will be so open to share their feelings with their male partners. Not all women have the same sex drive and this would vary from one woman to other woman but still there are certain things in sex that all woman agree upon. Continue Reading

Just picture it.  You are at the bar and that sexy little number with the naughty schoolgirl outfit has been giving you the eye all night long.  You know you could hit that with very little effort and you soon start to dream of all the things you could do to her once you got her back to her place.  But, would you really know what to do with Miss Hotty if you really did manage to get beneath her skirt?  If you are like most of us, you probably don’t even have a clue.  Sure, we all talk like we are the king in the sack, but the reality is that most of us wouldn’t know what to do with wet pussy if it hit us upside the head.  So, sit back and take some bedroom advice that comes directly from the source.

Mix It Up

“I hate it when a guy does the same old thing every time you hit the sack,” says Melanie.  “I like a guy to mix it up a little.  You know, sometimes it is sweet and romantic and other times he pounds you like a little whore.”

Of course, if we are talking about a one-nighter here, you don’t have to worry about mixing it up from time to time.  Just find what you are good at and show off the moves to your one night conquest.  If you are in a long-term relationship, on the other hand, try to avoid getting in a rut.

Guys tend to do the same thing every time they get between the sheets.  After all, you have found what works for you and it gets you off, so why make a change?  Unfortunately, the same isn’t true with women.  Most women I have talked to want you to change it up a little rather than sticking to the same old routine.  This doesn’t mean you need to hang from the chandeliers or break out with a ball gag each time you hook up, but try to vary the mood and the action in order to keep your girl interested.

Warm Her Up

If you are a bad lover, you will be getting off right at about the time your girl is ready to get going.  Treat your woman like that old classic car you love so much – don’t hop in, turn the key and hit the gas.  Rather, start her up, give her a rub down and check her gauges to make sure she is ready to go.

Many guys dread the thought of having to engage in foreplay.  After all, you don’t need time to get warmed up.  A couple touches in a few key places and you’re ready to go.  With women, however, you need to take a little more time to get her ready.  This doesn’t mean you have to munch her all night long before you can finally slip it to her.  But, try kissing her for awhile and rubbing on the outside of her panties before you slip a finger inside and primer her engine.  You will know she is ready when she starts to get moist and her clitoris starts to become engorged.

Spend Some Time with the Little Man in the Boat

Speaking of the clitoris, be certain to give the little fella some of your attention.  The reality is that many women can’t get off without having a certain amount of clitoral stimulation.  Remember that girl in the naughty school girl outfit?  A girl in a skirt offers great opportunities for a little clit action before going in.  Slip your hand up beneath her skirt and rub her clit through her panties in a circular fashion, starting off nice and slow and then working your way up to a higher speed while increasing the pressure.  By the time you are ready to slip those panties off, they will be soaking wet and she will be ready to jump your bones.

Work the Titties

“I hate it when guys jump right in and start mauling all over my breasts,” complains Melissa.  “I mean, I’m into boob action, but there is a right time and a wrong time, you know?”

No, I don’t know.  But, when I asked Melissa and the other girls I talked to about where things stand with the boobs, I found that playing with those lovely lumps is something you should work your way into.  In other words, if you start sucking and nibbling on her nipples before she has been heated up, it may not be a turn on at all.  In fact, some women find it to be a turn off.  “It’s too much like breastfeeding – it hurts,” complained one woman.

When you get her motor revving before you move in for the tits, on the other hand, something magical happens.  For some reason, most of the women I talked to said that playing with their tits after they have been warmed up is a real turn on.  Some even said sucking on their tits is one way to push them over the pleasure plateau – but only if it is done after they are good and worked up.

So, although you may be anxious to just grab that little hottie at the bar and have your way with it, remember that the ladies talk to each other and that a shitty role in the hay may get you blackballed on many lists.  Take your time and make sure you leave her something to remember you by – even if you never plan on hooking up with the same girl twice.

If you enjoy watching porn as most guys do, you have likely seen at least one video that shows a woman who is so turned on and so orgasmic that she actually shoots cum all over the place. Or, even if you haven’t seen it on video, you have probably heard stories about female ejaculation from your buddies or elsewhere. But, more than likely, none of these guys has ever been with a woman who was a squirter. Rather, they have probably just heard of this phenomenon and may even talk about it as if they hope to some day find the ever-elusive squirting woman.

So, if you haven’t been with a woman who sprays cum all over the place and no one you know has been with a squirter, does this woman even exist? I am here to tell you that these women are definitely out there and that, with a little patience and experimentation, you may even be able to make it happen.

What is Female Ejaculation?

Female ejaculation is a phenomenon that is the matter of much debate in the scientific community. Not surprisingly, it is pretty difficult to observe female ejaculation and to capture the liquid that is expelled. After all, this would involve hooking up several contraptions to the woman and possibly to her partner, all of which can seriously get in the way of arousal. In addition, most women who self-report ejaculation say they have little to no control over when or if it happens. Therefore, it there are never any guarantees it will actually happen while being studied.

When the fact that it is difficult to study female ejaculation is combined with our society’s tendency to dismiss the sexuality of women, it is easy to understand why some scientists don’t believe it happens at all. According to one woman I spoke to, however, it definitely does occur and the fluid that is expelled certainly is not the same as urine. The limited research that has been conducted appears to support this fact.

Although urine and female ejaculation are both expelled through the urethra, the liquid released during sexual stimulation contains chemicals known as PSA and PAP. Both of these chemicals are produced from a gland that is referred to as the “female prostate,” though some scientists refuse to believe that this gland even exists. The female prostate is similar to the male prostate in that it can result in great pleasure when properly stimulated. In many cases, the female prostate is actually hidden behind the fleshy area that is referred to as the “G-spot.” So, when you stimulate the G-spot, you are also stimulating the female prostate.

PSA and PAP are also found in the urine of women, but they are found in larger quantities in the ejaculate. So, although there are some similarities between urine and female ejaculate, they are still quite different and should not be thought of as the same thing.

Can All Women Ejaculate?

In theory, it is possible for any woman to become a squirter. Since all women have the same physiological makeup, it should be possible to stimulate any women in such a way that it will cause her juices to explode. In practice, however, most research in the matter has found that less than 50% of women ejaculate. Among those that do, many of them only do on occasion. At the same time, there are some women who squirt on a fairly regular basis.

There is some research indicating that women with stronger pelvic muscles are more likely to be able to ejaculate. Similarly, those women with the greatest control of those muscles have a better chance of making it happen. This is because the rhythmic contraction of these muscles helps work the fluid out of the body. While clitoral stimulation and other steps can be taken to arouse her to the point where these muscles contract on their own, a woman who is able to contract her muscles whenever she likes can help move the process along.

“I squirt almost every time my husband and I have sex,” says 33-year-old Sharon. “At first, I would help make it happen by squeezing my pussy muscles over and over again during sex. I really just did it because it felt good for both of us when I would squeeze his dick like that, but I soon found that it also helped make me cum.”

It is also possible that the physical changes that occur as a woman ages may help her transform into a squirter or that she has to be with the same partner for awhile before it happens.

“I didn’t start squirting until I was about 31 and until after I had been with my husband for about seven years,” continues Sharon. “The first time it happened, we were on vacation with the kids at Disney World and he was eating me out. Before I knew it, I was squirting all over his face. I didn’t even know it was coming. It was quite the shock for both of us. Disney truly is a magical place!”

How Can I Make My Woman Squirt?

While there is no guaranteed way to make your woman squirt, there are a few steps you can take. First, you need to make certain she is relaxed and comfortable with you. She also has to lose in inhibitions and not be afraid of “making a mess” or seeming less feminine. Honestly, this is usually the biggest obstacle you will have to overcome because many women have a difficult time completely giving into their sexuality.

You are also going to have to take your time getting her worked up, so there will be no minute man action going on here, hot shot. You will need to start with some clitoral stimulation, rubbing and caressing of the body and whatever else gets your woman going. Look for her G-spot, which usually feels a bit rougher than the other flesh inside, while continuing with the clitoral stimulation. He may also want to encourage her to squeeze your fingers repeatedly with her pelvic muscles. Not only will this increase her pleasure, it will feel pretty damn cool for you too.

“After my Disney experience, I realized that squeezing my muscles helped increase my chances of getting a squirt,” Sharon says. “But, after awhile of encouraging the juices to flow, I often get a squirter without having to do anything to encourage it. In fact, there are many times that I explode almost immediately after my husband sticks his dick in me and I will often have several more eruptions before we’re done. The sheets are a mess, but who the hell cares?”

If you ask me, cleaning up some messy sheets is certainly worth the rewards.