OK, stud, just picture it – you are out on the prowl for a little action and the club you just walked into is full of women you wouldn’t mind taking home for the night. You walk through the club and try to pick out the lucky lady you will pursue for the night while trying to judge whether or not you have a real shot. But, would you really know if a chick was into you or not? If you are like most guys, you can’t figure it out unless she slaps you upside the face and screams “Fuck me now you hot, sexy man!” Even then, you might not be too sure if you really have a shot. Yeah, we men can be pretty obtuse sometimes.

If you are interested in learning a bit more about the fairer sex, try taking some time to gain a better understanding of female body language. If you actually pay attention to the nonverbal messages she is sending you, you just might be able to go home with that hot babe you have been eying all night – or, maybe you will go home with her friend instead.

It’s All About the Hair

Perhaps the best way to tell if a woman is coming on to you is to pay attention to what she is doing with her hair. If she is in to you, she will likely start stroking her hair, combing through it with her fingers, brushing it away from her face with her hand or otherwise playing around with her lovely locks.

Many women start playing with their hair when they feel nervous energy while hanging out with a guy they are attracted to. Playing with her hair also goes back to a woman’s more primal instincts, as it exposes her soft, bare skin and makes her appear more vulnerable and approachable by men.

Drawing Attention to the Lips

Women who are flirting will also do things to draw attention to their lips, as this is one part of the female body that most men find to be quite stimulating. Women may bring attention to their lips in several ways, such as putting on lipstick, licking her lips, chewing on a straw or eating something more slowly than usual and appearing to take great joy in the act.

Crossing the Gams

If she is into you, she may begin to slowly cross and uncross her legs whenever she suspects you are watching. She may also adjust her clothing when she has your attention, which may cause her to “accidentally” show off a little of her bare skin. While she’s at it, she might even coyly dangle a shoe from her foot while crossing her legs. This is just one step toward taking off her clothes for you before you ever take her home.

Giving the ‘Ole Rubdown

Many women will start the “hands on” process for you by rubbing on their necks or hands with one hand while you are around. Again, this is one way for the woman to let off some of her nervous energy, but it also makes her appear more vulnerable and open to being talked to. In addition, the motion of raising her arm to her head helps lift her breasts higher, thereby making her look even more appealing. On a more primal level, lifting her arm may also expose her armpit and release pheromones to draw you in even more.

Stroking Something Smooth

We all know you want the girl you are checking out to stroke the smooth object you have to offer, so why not get you started with your fantasies by stroking something before you head back to your place? Well, at least, that is what she is thinking.

If you notice the lady you are interested in leisurely stroking an object or rubbing her fingers along it in a teasing manner, such as slowly running her finger around the rim of her drinking glass, you can be certain she is trying to send signals your way. Stimulating smooth objects, particularly those that are moist in some way, is her way of offering to do the same to you.

The Playful Tap

When a woman is into you, she will also have a tendency to touch you whenever the chance arises. If you have gathered the balls to walk up to her and to start talking to her, she will send you flirty signals by playfully slapping on the arm or in the stomach. Not only is this her way of breaking down the barriers between you, it is also her way of checking out the goods. So, be sure to flex those muscles and to suck in that gut.

A flirting woman may find other ways to touch you beyond the playful slap. For example, she might adjust your collar, fix a button, brush away your hair or otherwise “tend” to your needs. Again, she is finding ways to touch you while showing interest in your needs at the same time. It is also her way of inviting you to touch her back, so take advantage of your opening and start returning her attention.

If you haven’t notice by now, female flirting is basically centered around sex and sexuality. After all, women know what you really want – so, they are trying to let you know that they are open and available to give you what you desire. If she is touching her hair, exposing her skin, playing with her lips or otherwise trying to appeal to your sexual desires in subtle ways, you are definitely on her good side. Make your move now before she moves on to someone who understands her body language better than you.