If you have a beautiful girlfriend, chances are that some of her friends are super-duper hot and you would like to have them. Let’s face it, men are flirts. The temptation could be too strong and in fact uncontrollable at times. Therefore, if you are still wondering how you can have it away with your girlfriend’s BFF without the risk of being embarrassed before you even started, you have come to the right place.

Don’t’ rush this stage, except you are sure that she is also in love with you. Okay, first you would want to make your girlfriend’s BFF see that you are exceptional—you care for her more than any man does. You can do this by being caring in an exceptional way. For example, talk to your girl to invite her all the time for dinner and ask her if she would love to go on vacation with you.

Buy two pairs of every gift: one for your girlfriend and one for her friend. Send her fruit baskets under a strange name twice a month. If you have the money to lavish her , you can surprise her with luxury gifts.

Come up with a fake name and an email address so she can always get in contact with you. From the fake email address, start sending her love messages. If she responds back positively, good for you, everything is going as planned. If she is married or has a boyfriend that you know of, that’s great too.

Next, invite her and her boyfriend/husband to a party in your house. Get to know the person.

Continue sending her love messages and if she sends you, naked pictures of her, good. If she needs yours, simply tell her you are going to do that soon.

As your real self, make it a habit to start calling her every 3 days. Call her when she is at work or when she is not with your girlfriend.

It is time to expose you. Wait for a good date that your girlfriend is out of town. Arrange for a meeting. If you played the game right, she should not be too surprised. She must have gotten some hints before now, due to the way you treat her nicely, send her gifts, and call her often.

At the meeting, tell her how much you love her. Tell her you have always being in love with her from the very first day you saw her. Address whatever fear she has. If she insists that, she can’t do that to her friend, simply agree to it for that minute and then start over again the next minute.

She won’t resist too much for so long and you would enjoy yourself and live life with two beautiful women who are friends to each other. A word of caution, you should know when to break the relationship. If you plan to marry your girlfriend sometime in the future, doing her girlfriend might be a too risky a thing to do.

You’ve seen the video. You now smell like a man, man. You’re also on a horse. Congratulations. You’re worthy of Old Spice’s now legendary campaign, featuring ex NFL star Isaiah Mustafa which, for the first time is due to be screened on UK shores.

The award winning YouTube sensation features Mustafa tackle the problem of not smelling like a real man and sees the impressively muscled ex athlete arriving in a series of uncompromising situations, from straight out of the shower to striding the decks of your own private yacht.

We may not all have the bodies of a real man, but we can sure as hell try and smell like one. So, check out the video and decide whether you’ve got what it takes!

This is the hardest, and yet the easiest, part of being great with women. All our clients worry about this when really they should be concentrating on their fashion, body language and conversation.

But hey we we’ve got to give people what they want (even if it doesn’t really matter how you start the conversation).

Here are my top 5 tips for approaching that nerve-inducing stunner in a very pretentious West End Bar:

1. What you say matters not a jot. It’s how you say it. Be slow and clear (think James Bond), maintain good eye contact and come in a little higher energy than the group. If they are sitting and having a quiet conversation you can be a little more energetic and if they are laughing uproariously then you have to be really high energy. The key is to be a compelling source of entertainment in the opening interaction.
2. Play to your strengths. If you are a loud and confident guy then go for the energised groups. If you are quiet and more reserved, then groups that are quieter could be a better option. Be dictated here by your mood- so, if you are normally quiet but you feel high energy in the moment, then go for the high energy girl.
3. Dress well. It’s frightening how guys handicap themselves by dressing badly. How can you expect to get the best women if you look rubbish? It’s possible but very unlikely. In terms of style we do have some articles (link) on this but generally have a look which stands out. So I am more city gent whereas Milton, for example is a bit edgier and cooler in the way he dresses. This article from our blog explain his in a little more detail.
4. OK OK I know you want to know what to say. Well In our book Get Girls I go through this in detail but I will summarise here: You can use a conversation starter which can be low risk (where can I find a great bar for dancing?) through to more sexual higher risk (do I look gay in this shirt? could you rate my arse out of ten?) Or an authentic opener. An authentic opener will be where you say what is on your mind. For example, you see a girl and think she looks cute tell her; you see a girl and don’t know what to say… go and tell her you wanted to chat her up but didn’t know what to say.
5. Know what you are going to say after then opener. Have some topics lined up and ready to go so, if the conversation does falter, you will have some pre-prepared topics to fall back on.

Happy approaching!

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