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Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore


So you are finally found a nice attractive young woman and move past the first date? Now you must be asking yourself what next?  Depending on the type of response you have got from her, you can either move on or take the relationship to the next level. Meanwhile, you should look out for some of the red flags that warn you not to get involved with certain types of people. While dating, you should never ignore your instincts; carefully consider whether you really want to be with someone before becoming serious.  It is very easy to fall in love but it is extremely difficult to stay in love if you have chosen the wrong person. Read the full story

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Get Out From Her Friend Zone


So you like this girl a lot. May be she is your colleague, attends the same gym or maybe she is in your class. You have been friends with her for a couple of months and you guys hit it off pretty well, only thing is that you want to become her boyfriend and she still wants to be “just friends”. This article is all about teaching those hopeless romantics how to get out from the dead-end also known as the “friend zone” and emerge as a boyfriend in front of her eyes. Read the full story

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Make Her Fall in Love with You


It is said that women are the most beautiful creation of God on this earth. According to men, it’s very difficult to understand them and probably it is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Actually, it is not that much difficult to understand a woman, all they need is care and love all the time. Women prefer attention and appreciation in whatever they do and men who know it better can make any women of his choice, fall in love with him. Read the full story

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How to Make Her Love What You Love?


The taste of a guy and a girl differs from each other in every aspect. Girls usually don’t like sports that much, while men are crazy for sports. It is always more fun when you watch your favorite match sitting with your loved ones. In case you have to watch your favorite football match and your girl doesn’t want to do that then how will you make her sit with you to watch your favorite match? Here are some ways by which you can build an interest in her regarding the match you have interest in. Read the full story

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How to Get Your Girl to Lose Weight (without getting yourself in trouble)


Have you noticed that your girl’s thighs are getting thicker and her waist is getting wider?  If it seems like her weight is starting to get out of control, you probably feel like you can’t do anything but stand by and idly watch as she grows and spread.  But, you can do something about your expanding girl.  All it takes is finding some sneaky ways to help her start living a healthier lifestyle.  After all, if you tell her she needs to lose weight, you probably won’t get any action for a very long time.  So, try these tips and see where they get you.

How to Get Her Exercising

She’s never going to shed any pounds if she doesn’t get up and get moving, so it is up to you to find ways to make this happen.  Unfortunately, it is not as easy as just telling her to run some laps around the house.  Instead, it is going to take a little self-sacrifice on your part.

One of the best ways to get your girl moving is to ask her to engage in some physical activity with you.  Now, she probably isn’t going to head outside and play some flag football with you and the guys, so inviting her out to your weekly game at the park isn’t going to get the job done.  Instead, try finding some physical activities you both enjoy.  No, we aren’t talking about increasing your romps in the sack, big boy.  Rather, try finding some things you can do together that will help her burn off some extra calories.  For example:

  • Head to your local park or high school and play tennis together.  You might even be able to invite another couple and get some socializing out of the way at the same time.
  • Make a trip to the park and hit some trails.  Depending on where you live, you may have numerous hiking opportunities available to you.
  • Go to the beach or the community pool and do some swimming.  Challenge her to a race and draw out her competitive spirit.
  • Purchase a couple of bicycles and hit the pavement together.
  • Buy a dog and take it out for walks together.

You may have noticed that all of these suggestions involve you in some way.  The simple truth is that she is more likely to get active if it gives her an excuse to spend some more time with you.  And, who knows?  The together time might actually help your relationship get stronger.

If she isn’t biting at these suggestions, you might be better off with telling her that you want to start working out and would like her to be your workout buddy.  If you go this route, make sure to make it clear that you need someone to workout with you so you will stay motivated.  If you give her any reason to think that you believe she needs to workout, you will get in a whole lot of trouble.

How to Get Her Dieting

Just as with getting her exercising, getting her to diet is going to take a little self-sacrifice.  Again, you are going to be better off if you claim that you are trying to lose weight.  Tell her you want to lose a few pounds, so you need to make some dietary changes.  Then, ask her if she can help you stay true to your diet by preparing meals with less calories and making smarter food choices.

If she is like most women, she will probably run off with this request and will start looking up all kinds of healthy recipes and diet choices.  After all, when it comes to improving you, she is willing to put an endless amount of time and energy into the process.  The more she learns about calorie counting and cutting out fats, the more likely she will be to start making some better food choices.

No one said it would be easy, but for this trick to work, you will need to set a good example.  If she sees you making healthy food choices, she will feel self-conscious about pigging out on a piece of cake in front of you.

When It’s Time to Talk to Her

If your girl still isn’t making healthier choices, it may be time for you to talk to her about her weight.  If it gets to this point, you need to be certain to be as gentle as possible.  Chances are pretty good that she already realizes that she is overweight and would like to shed some pounds, but she may not feel as if she can make it happen.  So, it might take a little encouragement from you to get her on track.

If you do have to talk it over with her, approach her out of concern for her health.  If she thinks for a moment that you think she is too fat, she will assume you no longer find her attractive and then you will have to deal with her and her insecurities.  Rather, make sure to tell her how much you love her and how beautiful you think she is, but that you want to make sure she will be here for years to come.

If you are looking for a perfect “in” for the health discussion, there is no better time than now.  February is American Heart Month, so try to get her to agree to commit to a healthier heart with you.  This way, you can make some changes together and you will both be healthier in the end.

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5 Tips for Getting Her to Watch Football with You


So, the big game is right around the corner.  You know what I’m talking about – the big match up between the Arizona Cardinals and Pittsburgh Steelers that will be taking place on February 1.  If you are like any true red-blooded football fan, you will be parked in front of your TV all day watching the game.  And, in all likelihood, your girl will be there with you.  After all, women love to socialize, which means the Super Bowl might be the only game during the entire football season and post-season that you can actually get her to sit down and watch a game with you.  But, what can you do to get her to watch more flying pigskin with you when next season rolls around?

While there are certainly some guys who prefer to watch football with only their testosterone-filled man-friends, there are more who wish their lady-friend would sit down and watch the game with them week after week.  I mean, no one can argue that watching football is more fun and exciting when you have someone to watch it with you.  Not only that, if you can turn your woman into a football fan, you might actually be able to watch the game with her each week and have that time counted as “special together time.”  Can you just imagine what a wonderful world it would be if you could watch football and get brownie points at the same time?  If you are ready to transform your woman into a fan of the gridiron, try implementing these five tips.

Tip #1:  Talk to Her About It

You might be wondering why the first tip would be to talk to her.  After all, most of us aren’t big on sitting around and discussing our feelings.  But, trust me, if you tell your woman how much you love football and how much you would like to share that passion with her, she will be more open to giving it a try.  Don’t try to convince her that football is a great sport that she needs to check out.  Rather, tell her you want to spend more time with her and that it would mean a lot to her if she would spend quality bonding time with you by watching the game.  If you convince her that you just want to spend time with her and that you want to share something special with her, she won’t have any other choice but to give it a try.

Tip #2:  Take the Time to Explain

Before you start watching the game, take some time to explain some of the ins and outs of the sport to her.  Don’t overwhelm her by trying to explain every type of formation your team likes to run and the strategy behind each play.  Rather, run over a few of the basics.  The more she understands the game, the more she will appreciate what she is watching.  At the same time, if you explain every detail of the game beforehand, it will likely seem confusing to her and she won’t give it a real try.

Tip #3:  Let Her Talk and Ask Questions

As you watch the game, she will likely have a lot of questions about the game.  Try not to get annoyed by these questions.  Instead, think of it as a sign that you are making good progress.  After all, she wouldn’t be asking questions if she wasn’t interested (or at least trying to get interested).  If you tell her to be quiet or act annoyed by her questions, it will turn her off to the game and all hope of converting her into a fan will be lost.  So, even if Peyton Manning is in the process of completing a 64 yard touchdown pass to Reggie Wayne, take your eyes off the game and answer her question.  Just remember, if you pull this off, she just might be jumping, screaming and chest-bumping with you the next time a play like that is being made.

If you are really concerned about  missing out on the big plays because you will be too busy answering questions, you might want to consider introducing her to the game by watching a match-up between two teams you don’t care so much about.  That way, it won’t be quite so painful for you to turn your attention away from the action on the screen when it comes time to answer her questions.

Tip #4:  Make it a Special Moment

You will greatly increase your chances of transforming her into a football fan if you find a way to make game day special for her.  A little cuddling on the couch while you watch the game can go a long way and will help make her look forward to the game next week.  If she is the one who usually gets stuck doing the cooking, order out on game day or take over the cooking duties that day so she can relax and enjoy the game with you.

Tip #5:  Buy Her Some Goodies

Let’s face it, women love clothes and they love accessories.  So, take her out and purchase something cute for her that is related to your team.  You might be surprised by the growing number of NFL items that are geared specifically toward women.  A cute women’s jersey will likely put a smile on her face and might help build her team spirit.  Besides, even if she never really gets into watching the game, you will at least have the pleasure of seeing her wear your favorite team’s jersey now and again.

While there is no guarantee you will ever get your woman to sit down and watch every game with you, following these tips will greatly increase your chances.  At the very least, she will appreciate your efforts to include you in your special man-time and she just might gain a better understanding of why she should leave you alone when the game is on.

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