Red flags

Here we will discuss about the different relationship red flags that will warn you against the wrong woman. Here we will list some of the most common relationship warning signals that men ignore.

• Past relationships: although this rule might have its own share of exceptions, you should always keep a watch out for this one. If a woman has too many fling sin the past, which came to an abrupt end, it might mean that she has a problem being in a long-term relationship. When asked about her past relationships, if she starts telling you that all the other men were jerks, it is a clear sign that she is lying to you. When you think about it carefully, if all the men end up getting dumped by her, you might be awaiting a similar fate.
• Bad childhood: everyone has their fair share of fights with their parents at some time or the other, but if a woman has a particular deep-seated grudge against one of her parents, she will make it apparent to you. Staying away from such women will be a good idea for the sake of your own sanity. Childhood leaves a deep impact on our personality so it is very important to analyze.
• No girlfriends: usually women hang out with quite a few girlfriends, that is a good sign as these girlfriends help he resort out her emotional needs. A woman with no girlfriend and many male friends is a minefield, you would be better off not venturing into that territory.
• Emotional baggage: make sure you are not the rebound guy for her. If  a woman appears too easy and falls for you immediately after breaking up with her ex, this is a clear signal that she needs you to get over her ex. If you do not want to get hurt, stay away from such women as they will wreck up your life and scoot away as soon as her emotional needs are fulfilled.

The above mentioned points are just some of the red flags that you should watch out for while dating a person. The rules are not all inclusive and as you go ahead in life, perhaps you will coin a few rules of your own.

How to get out from the friend zone:

• Agony uncle: If you are good friends with her, she might need you to stand by her side from time to time, but it is important that you do not end up playing that role for the rest of your life.  You listen to her emotional outburst sonly because you love her, so rather than being the male friend, you should make it clear that you mean business. Most guys are too shy to talk about their feelings; all you need to know is that you will not get a chance unless you grab it.
• Take a break: if you are stuck in the friend zone for long enough, the girl will have an image of you as her teddy bear and you need to get out of that image. In order to get out of that image you might try avoiding her for a few days. Don’t be too easily available as she might just take your for granted and stop giving you respect. Taking a break makes her miss your company and break the teddy bear image.
• Don’t stop dating: going on mysterious dates with other girls is bound to make her see you in a different light altogether. Girls like attractive confident men who can woo other men and a little bit of jealousy can be really helpful.
• Be naughty: do things that set you apart from her other male friends, maybe touch her hand casually at the coffee shop. If she gets accustomed to your touch, she will slowly develop a physical bonding with you. A little flirting can also help you break the barrier past the friend zone.
• Speak out: if you are not making much of a progress in your efforts, you should try taking her out for dinner sometime and conveying your emotions in a straightforward manner. Women appreciate honesty and you will certainly score some cookie points that way. Even if she says “no” you can still remain friends but it is worth taking a chance.  Most importantly do not sit around while another guy come sand sweeps the maiden off her feet.

These are just a few points that will surely help you make a breakthrough in the relationship and get you off the friendship boat. A few years down the line, you will be more than happy that you took your chances and did not just sit their chewing your fingernails at her wedding.


However, apart from all these, there are also certain important factors that a man has to take care of in order to impress a woman and make her fall in love with him. Women always appreciate men with great looks and personality. In order to maintain a perfect look that will impress your lady, you have to first learn how to dress well and be presentable is what every woman look for. Moreover, just concentrating on looks will not serve your purpose of making her fall in love with you. A good personality is what they want in their man. A pleasant attitude with little humbleness impresses women like anything. You must have seen guys with good sense of humor get lots of attention from the girls.

Another important thing in this regard is that the guy should know how to respect woman/girl. It is most crucial part of any relationship where the growth of relationship depends upon. Girls notice this thing very closely being with a guy. So, in order to get your girl, it is important for you to show proper respect to her. It is said that girls’ six senses are more powerful than boys and to certain extent it is true. They can make out whether you are showing that respect for the sake of impressing her or you genuinely have respect for her. Remember one thing that girls don’t like fake things at all. So as much as possible be the real you and don’t pretend in front of her.

While starting a conversation with a girl, never speak too much. Try to listen what is she saying and then say your part. They don’t like guys talking beyond extend. Don’t use any bad words during your conversation, as it shows disrespect to the person you are talking with. Never start a topic which is not interesting to her, as she will be annoying to this and will not pay proper attention what you are saying which will be little humiliating for you.

Moreover, girls like those guys who are romantic in nature and can do anything for them. It makes them feel special and they feel happy. Every girl in this world dreams of a guy or man who loves her unconditionally and accept her as the way she is. All they want from their man is true love and care. So, be careful next time when you approach her.

First, start talking to her about the game. Now you must be thinking how would you start talking about the game in which she has no interest? Start your conversation with something she likes the most, such as a TV show and ask her why she likes it so much. Let her speak for a while and then you tell her about your likings about this particular game and request her to sit for a little time though she doesn’t like it, as you like her company. This will make her feel special and she will be agreed to sit with you.

While the match is going to start, just before sometime explain her some basics of the game, so that she can understand the game a little. Without knowing anything about the game, she won’t be having any interest in that game. Try to explain her in between the game what’s going on actually in it, it will help her to build interest in the game. Once she gets a little interest in the game, she will watch the complete game. As she is new to the game, she might ask you a lot of question about it, but don’t get annoyed of it. It proves that gradually she is building interest in your favorite game and wants to know more about it.

Make this moment a special one for your love by pampering her during the match. It will make her feel that watching this match the best thing happened to her and thus, when next time you will ask her for your favorite match, she won’t say no.

Usually, women like gifts and especially if they are cloths or accessories. Next time when you go for shopping together, get her something cute and sweet related to your favorite game or team. It will make her happy and she will gradually start liking your favorite game. However, no can guarantee about the behavior of a woman and her liking exactly, but trying for it is definitely not a bad idea. By doing this, you will not only get her attention on you but also can make her love whatever you like. Women like attention and appreciation, so if are able to provide them these all, you will definitely make them happy and thus, they will do the things you like, to make you happy.


How to Get Her Exercising

She’s never going to shed any pounds if she doesn’t get up and get moving, so it is up to you to find ways to make this happen.  Unfortunately, it is not as easy as just telling her to run some laps around the house.  Instead, it is going to take a little self-sacrifice on your part.

One of the best ways to get your girl moving is to ask her to engage in some physical activity with you.  Now, she probably isn’t going to head outside and play some flag football with you and the guys, so inviting her out to your weekly game at the park isn’t going to get the job done.  Instead, try finding some physical activities you both enjoy.  No, we aren’t talking about increasing your romps in the sack, big boy.  Rather, try finding some things you can do together that will help her burn off some extra calories.  For example:

• Head to your local park or high school and play tennis together.  You might even be able to invite another couple and get some socializing out of the way at the same time.
• Make a trip to the park and hit some trails.  Depending on where you live, you may have numerous hiking opportunities available to you.
• Go to the beach or the community pool and do some swimming.  Challenge her to a race and draw out her competitive spirit.
• Purchase a couple of bicycles and hit the pavement together.
• Buy a dog and take it out for walks together.

You may have noticed that all of these suggestions involve you in some way.  The simple truth is that she is more likely to get active if it gives her an excuse to spend some more time with you.  And, who knows?  The together time might actually help your relationship get stronger.

If she isn’t biting at these suggestions, you might be better off with telling her that you want to start working out and would like her to be your workout buddy.  If you go this route, make sure to make it clear that you need someone to workout with you so you will stay motivated.  If you give her any reason to think that you believe she needs to workout, you will get in a whole lot of trouble.

How to Get Her Dieting

Just as with getting her exercising, getting her to diet is going to take a little self-sacrifice.  Again, you are going to be better off if you claim that you are trying to lose weight.  Tell her you want to lose a few pounds, so you need to make some dietary changes.  Then, ask her if she can help you stay true to your diet by preparing meals with less calories and making smarter food choices.

If she is like most women, she will probably run off with this request and will start looking up all kinds of healthy recipes and diet choices.  After all, when it comes to improving you, she is willing to put an endless amount of time and energy into the process.  The more she learns about calorie counting and cutting out fats, the more likely she will be to start making some better food choices.

No one said it would be easy, but for this trick to work, you will need to set a good example.  If she sees you making healthy food choices, she will feel self-conscious about pigging out on a piece of cake in front of you.

When It’s Time to Talk to Her

If your girl still isn’t making healthier choices, it may be time for you to talk to her about her weight.  If it gets to this point, you need to be certain to be as gentle as possible.  Chances are pretty good that she already realizes that she is overweight and would like to shed some pounds, but she may not feel as if she can make it happen.  So, it might take a little encouragement from you to get her on track.

If you do have to talk it over with her, approach her out of concern for her health.  If she thinks for a moment that you think she is too fat, she will assume you no longer find her attractive and then you will have to deal with her and her insecurities.  Rather, make sure to tell her how much you love her and how beautiful you think she is, but that you want to make sure she will be here for years to come.

If you are looking for a perfect “in” for the health discussion, there is no better time than now.  February is American Heart Month, so try to get her to agree to commit to a healthier heart with you.  This way, you can make some changes together and you will both be healthier in the end.

While there are certainly some guys who prefer to watch football with only their testosterone-filled man-friends, there are more who wish their lady-friend would sit down and watch the game with them week after week.  I mean, no one can argue that watching football is more fun and exciting when you have someone to watch it with you.  Not only that, if you can turn your woman into a football fan, you might actually be able to watch the game with her each week and have that time counted as “special together time.”  Can you just imagine what a wonderful world it would be if you could watch football and get brownie points at the same time?  If you are ready to transform your woman into a fan of the gridiron, try implementing these five tips.

Tip #1:  Talk to Her About It

You might be wondering why the first tip would be to talk to her.  After all, most of us aren’t big on sitting around and discussing our feelings.  But, trust me, if you tell your woman how much you love football and how much you would like to share that passion with her, she will be more open to giving it a try.  Don’t try to convince her that football is a great sport that she needs to check out.  Rather, tell her you want to spend more time with her and that it would mean a lot to her if she would spend quality bonding time with you by watching the game.  If you convince her that you just want to spend time with her and that you want to share something special with her, she won’t have any other choice but to give it a try.

Tip #2:  Take the Time to Explain

Before you start watching the game, take some time to explain some of the ins and outs of the sport to her.  Don’t overwhelm her by trying to explain every type of formation your team likes to run and the strategy behind each play.  Rather, run over a few of the basics.  The more she understands the game, the more she will appreciate what she is watching.  At the same time, if you explain every detail of the game beforehand, it will likely seem confusing to her and she won’t give it a real try.

Tip #3:  Let Her Talk and Ask Questions

As you watch the game, she will likely have a lot of questions about the game.  Try not to get annoyed by these questions.  Instead, think of it as a sign that you are making good progress.  After all, she wouldn’t be asking questions if she wasn’t interested (or at least trying to get interested).  If you tell her to be quiet or act annoyed by her questions, it will turn her off to the game and all hope of converting her into a fan will be lost.  So, even if Peyton Manning is in the process of completing a 64 yard touchdown pass to Reggie Wayne, take your eyes off the game and answer her question.  Just remember, if you pull this off, she just might be jumping, screaming and chest-bumping with you the next time a play like that is being made.

If you are really concerned about  missing out on the big plays because you will be too busy answering questions, you might want to consider introducing her to the game by watching a match-up between two teams you don’t care so much about.  That way, it won’t be quite so painful for you to turn your attention away from the action on the screen when it comes time to answer her questions.

Tip #4:  Make it a Special Moment

You will greatly increase your chances of transforming her into a football fan if you find a way to make game day special for her.  A little cuddling on the couch while you watch the game can go a long way and will help make her look forward to the game next week.  If she is the one who usually gets stuck doing the cooking, order out on game day or take over the cooking duties that day so she can relax and enjoy the game with you.

Tip #5:  Buy Her Some Goodies

Let’s face it, women love clothes and they love accessories.  So, take her out and purchase something cute for her that is related to your team.  You might be surprised by the growing number of NFL items that are geared specifically toward women.  A cute women’s jersey will likely put a smile on her face and might help build her team spirit.  Besides, even if she never really gets into watching the game, you will at least have the pleasure of seeing her wear your favorite team’s jersey now and again.

While there is no guarantee you will ever get your woman to sit down and watch every game with you, following these tips will greatly increase your chances.  At the very least, she will appreciate your efforts to include you in your special man-time and she just might gain a better understanding of why she should leave you alone when the game is on.