For several generations a wedding night was considered to be special due to the reason that it was the first time when the couple would have sex. But with the drift in time, it has become rare for a couple to have their first night sexual encounter on a wedding night due to the decreasing importance of premarital virginity. That does not mean that a first night in a wedding need not be considered special. There are chances that the newlywed lady might be interested in the intercourse act and it is good for you to make a serious effort in this direction to make the night more memorable. This has effect on the future sex life as husband and wife. The general question on the ways to deal with a first night after wedding was put forward by Mr. Alex M. here we put forward some suggestions to make the wedding night more memorable. Read the full story

There are several reasons why you should bring up the wild and erotic side of your mate. The first and the most important reason is to bring out a hotter sex from the act. There are chances that you might have seen her wild in sex earlier but that might have faded away. Here are some ways using which you can bring out the wilder side of her in sex. Read the full story

The only thought that you may get on seeing your girl friend or wife when she is arching her back and moaning and competing with Meg Ryan without her presence is that she is either faking or you are uneducated of your ability to please her. It is highly important for you to check out your ability to please her and if that does not happen, here are some of the tricks that you can use to make her orgasm. Read the full story

Having a conversation on sex with a woman can be quite interesting and one of its kind experience. The other day when I enquired the same thing from my girlfriend about her wishes regarding her man in bed, her replies were not that I expected to hear. She mumbled out a list of errors committed by her boyfriend. Read the full story

Crystal was right in his character in Harry met sally when he said that women cant be friends with men as there is always the part of sex that comes into play between them. It can be said that friendships with a female started just because you were attracted towards them to strike up a conversation. When it became clean that there is no possibility of having a romantic relationship, that one thing could turn out to be platonic. It can be seen that sometimes friends also indulge in the same activities as are taken up by lovers like those of late night phone calls, dinner dates and even sex. Read the full story

Most of the things about woman are not well known to men when it comes to activities in bedroom. This is because not all women will be so open to share their feelings with their male partners. Not all women have the same sex drive and this would vary from one woman to other woman but still there are certain things in sex that all woman agree upon. Read the full story

It’s the physical examination every man dreads.  It’s even worse than the “turn your head and cough” scenario that involves an 80-year-old doctor and his cold, clammy hands straddling the ‘ole twins.  You know what I am talking about – the anal probe.

For most guys, the prostate examination is about the worst exam you could possibly undergo.  Not only is it embarrassing (after all, you know how your bathroom smells after you have taking a nice, healthy shit in it), it also gets your homophobic radar blaring – particularly if that doc manages to stimulate just the right part of your prostate.  You know what I am talking about.  Nearly every guy who has had a prostate examination has felt a little bit of stirring up front.  Does this mean you have homosexual tendencies?  And, just what is the prostate and why is it so damn important for your doctor to violate you in order to check on its status?

What is the Prostate?

Put simply, your prostate is one part of your reproductive system that doesn’t get nearly as much attention as parts you play with while in the shower.  The job of the prostate is to make and to store your seminal fluid, which is the liquid your sperm swims around in and is what makes up the majority of the goo you squirt when your having a really good time.  Even if you get yourself fixed, your prostate will continue to kick out the seminal fluid.

Since your prostate is located in your pelvis in a spot that is both beneath your urinary bladder and in front of your rectum, the easiest way for your doctor to access it is through your backdoor.

Why is it Important to Get Your Prostate Checked?

Unfortunately for you and me, the prostate is an organ that is prone to developing cancer.  As with all forms of cancer, prostate cancer develops when cells mutate and then begin to multiply rapidly.  If left untreated, the cancerous cells can spread to other parts of the body.  It is particularly life-threatening if the cells spread to the bones or to the lymph nodes.  Even if the cells don’t spread, prostate cancer can cause a number of problems for you, ranging from pain to problems with your sexual functioning.

What are the Symptoms of Prostate Cancer?

In its earliest stages, prostate cancer usually doesn’t show any symptoms – which is why your doc needs to go spelunking in your nether regions from time to time.  Once the disease does start showing symptoms, however, common signs include:

• Frequent urination, particularly at night
• Difficulty maintaining a steady stream of urine
• Blood in the urine
• Pain when urinating
• Difficulty obtaining an erection
• Pain when ejaculating

Once the cancer begins to spread, you may notice pain in your ribs, vertebrae or pelvis.  After spreading to the spine, the disease may also lead to compression in the spinal cord as well as fecal and urinary incontinence.

Do I Really Need to Worry About Prostate Cancer?

Although prostate cancer occurs more frequently in men over the age of 50, it is possible for a man of any age to develop the disease.  In fact, it is one of the most common forms of cancer for men and, since there are often no symptoms associated with the disease, there is a good chance the disease won’t be caught in its early stages unless you get regular check-ups.

When performing the procedure, your doc will first lube up his or her finger before going hunting for your prostate.  Once there, the doctor will check the shape, size and texture of your prostate.  If the doctor finds any areas that are hard, lumpy or otherwise unusual feeling, those areas will require further examination.  Probing your most private of areas is not the only test that can be performed when screening for prostate cancer, as blood tests should be performed as well.  So, how about that, after getting violated in the rear, you also get stuck with a needle.  Sounds fun, huh?  Well, suck it up, tough guy.  It may not be pleasant, but it is necessary to keep your health on track.

Can Prostate Cancer be Prevented?

There is nothing you can do to completely eliminate the possibility of developing prostate cancer, but there are certain steps you can take to help reduce your chances of coming down with the disease.  Some research has shown that vitamins such as vitamin E and D can help protect the body from prostate cancer, as can soy foods and even green tea.  If you really want to reduce your chances of developing prostate cancer, however, you need to put that prostate to work.

According to a 2003 study performed in Australia, you finally have an excuse to spend some time with Rosie palm and her five sisters.  This is because the researchers found that men who masturbate more often are less likely to develop the disease.  As a result of the study, the researchers recommend that men ejaculate as frequently as possible between the ages of 20 and 50.  So, if you aren’t over 50 yet, you might want to take matters into your own hands (yes, the pun is certainly intended) and take measures now to prevent prostate cancer later.  Consider it to be simply part of your regular health regimen.  More specifically, researchers found that men in their 20s who ejaculated six or more times per week were 1/3 less likely to develop an aggressive form of prostate cancer later

If you don’t want to go this route – and why wouldn’t you? – you can also help reduce your chances of developing prostate cancer by increasing your consumption of omega-6 polyunsaturated fatty acid, which is in most forms of vegetable oil as well as in fats.

The bottom line is to try to eat healthy and get your prostate exam on a regular basis.  And, of course, ejaculate as frequently as possible.  After all, your health depends upon it.

Just picture it.  You are at the bar and that sexy little number with the naughty schoolgirl outfit has been giving you the eye all night long.  You know you could hit that with very little effort and you soon start to dream of all the things you could do to her once you got her back to her place.  But, would you really know what to do with Miss Hotty if you really did manage to get beneath her skirt?  If you are like most of us, you probably don’t even have a clue.  Sure, we all talk like we are the king in the sack, but the reality is that most of us wouldn’t know what to do with wet pussy if it hit us upside the head.  So, sit back and take some bedroom advice that comes directly from the source.

Mix It Up

“I hate it when a guy does the same old thing every time you hit the sack,” says Melanie.  “I like a guy to mix it up a little.  You know, sometimes it is sweet and romantic and other times he pounds you like a little whore.”

Of course, if we are talking about a one-nighter here, you don’t have to worry about mixing it up from time to time.  Just find what you are good at and show off the moves to your one night conquest.  If you are in a long-term relationship, on the other hand, try to avoid getting in a rut.

Guys tend to do the same thing every time they get between the sheets.  After all, you have found what works for you and it gets you off, so why make a change?  Unfortunately, the same isn’t true with women.  Most women I have talked to want you to change it up a little rather than sticking to the same old routine.  This doesn’t mean you need to hang from the chandeliers or break out with a ball gag each time you hook up, but try to vary the mood and the action in order to keep your girl interested.

Warm Her Up

If you are a bad lover, you will be getting off right at about the time your girl is ready to get going.  Treat your woman like that old classic car you love so much – don’t hop in, turn the key and hit the gas.  Rather, start her up, give her a rub down and check her gauges to make sure she is ready to go.

Many guys dread the thought of having to engage in foreplay.  After all, you don’t need time to get warmed up.  A couple touches in a few key places and you’re ready to go.  With women, however, you need to take a little more time to get her ready.  This doesn’t mean you have to munch her all night long before you can finally slip it to her.  But, try kissing her for awhile and rubbing on the outside of her panties before you slip a finger inside and primer her engine.  You will know she is ready when she starts to get moist and her clitoris starts to become engorged.

Spend Some Time with the Little Man in the Boat

Speaking of the clitoris, be certain to give the little fella some of your attention.  The reality is that many women can’t get off without having a certain amount of clitoral stimulation.  Remember that girl in the naughty school girl outfit?  A girl in a skirt offers great opportunities for a little clit action before going in.  Slip your hand up beneath her skirt and rub her clit through her panties in a circular fashion, starting off nice and slow and then working your way up to a higher speed while increasing the pressure.  By the time you are ready to slip those panties off, they will be soaking wet and she will be ready to jump your bones.

Work the Titties

“I hate it when guys jump right in and start mauling all over my breasts,” complains Melissa.  “I mean, I’m into boob action, but there is a right time and a wrong time, you know?”

No, I don’t know.  But, when I asked Melissa and the other girls I talked to about where things stand with the boobs, I found that playing with those lovely lumps is something you should work your way into.  In other words, if you start sucking and nibbling on her nipples before she has been heated up, it may not be a turn on at all.  In fact, some women find it to be a turn off.  “It’s too much like breastfeeding – it hurts,” complained one woman.

When you get her motor revving before you move in for the tits, on the other hand, something magical happens.  For some reason, most of the women I talked to said that playing with their tits after they have been warmed up is a real turn on.  Some even said sucking on their tits is one way to push them over the pleasure plateau – but only if it is done after they are good and worked up.

So, although you may be anxious to just grab that little hottie at the bar and have your way with it, remember that the ladies talk to each other and that a shitty role in the hay may get you blackballed on many lists.  Take your time and make sure you leave her something to remember you by – even if you never plan on hooking up with the same girl twice.

Have you decided to turn to the Internet to help give your romantic life the extra push that it needs?  Five years ago, you probably would have been teased relentlessly for being so desperate that you have to turn to your computer for love. Nowadays, Internet dating has become quite the norm.  In fact, nearly every single person (and many married people for that matter) has used the Internet in one way or another to help land a date or to otherwise seal the deal with someone they are trying to hook up with, so why shouldn’t you?

If you have decided to use the Internet as a dating tool – or even if you have already started – there are several things you should keep in mind in order to make certain it is a positive experience.  While the Internet can be a great place to look for a quick hookup or even for a potential long term relationship, it is also festering with psychotic and neurotic people who know a sucker when they see one.  So, follow these tips and you will be certain to have a good experience rather than one you have to retell to the police officer after you wakeup chained to a bed with your kidney missing.

Tip #1:  Know What You’re After

Before you start prowling around on the Internet, get an idea of what you are looking for.  Are you looking for someone to wine and dine and turn into a long-term commitment, or are you looking for someone who is likely to give you a little action right away?  Are you looking for someone to just hang out with, or do you hope to find a friend with “benefits?”  Believe it or not, there are dating sites geared toward each of these desired outcomes, so you are better off spending your time at one of the sites that caters toward people who are looking for the same thing as you.

Tip #2:  Get Your Game On

Now that you know what you are looking for, it is time to get your act together.  If you are going to use a dating site to help you find romance, you might want to have someone help you out with creating your profile so you don’t sound like a complete dumbass.  In addition, you want to come off as confident without sounding cocky, so work on how you are going to present yourself online.

Remember, it is a whole different game online.  The ladies will be reading what you have to say, so your body language and voice inflections won’t help you get your point across and can make it more difficult for you to express your thoughts.  At the same time, you will likely find that being located several miles away from the woman you are trying to hookup with will make it easier for you to say things you might not usually have the balls to say.

Tip #3:  Don’t Fool Yourself

Countless marriages and relationships have been destroyed thanks to online dating.  Remember how I mentioned that the distance makes it easier to say whatever you are thinking?  While this can be a good thing, it also makes it really easy for some chick to tell you a bunch of bullshit that you believe.  It also makes it easier for you to pour your heart out and think that she really “gets” you, but things can be a whole hell of a lot different when you are actually together.

So, before you sell your house and fly halfway across the country to be with your Internet sweetheart, make sure it is the real deal.  In addition, don’t start giving out personal information such as your home address or your work phone number until you know things are on the up-and-up.  The last thing you need is some psycho, clingy broad calling  your job every hour and asking why you never call her anymore.

Tip #4:  Keep Your Money in Your Pocket

There are many women who sign up with online dating sites or prowl Internet sites in search of “love” or a “good time” who are really just looking for a quick buck.  These women have no problem with investing a little time in you in order to string you along before asking for money.  Of course, they can be sneaky in the way they do it.  For example, they might need money for an airline ticket so they can leave an abusive husband.  Or, they may need cash for a mortgage payment so they don’t lose their house.  I once knew a guy who flew all the way to Colorado from Indiana to meet his Internet lover.  After he got a little action and returned home, she told him she was pregnant and needed money for an abortion.  The sucker fell for it and, after he sent her the money, she left him to go back to her husband.

Tip #5:  Stay with a Group

Internet dating sites are always advising women to meet their online companions in a public place so they don’t get taken advantage of by some creep.  While this is sound advice for women, it is also good advise for men. Let’s face it, you don’t really know who this woman is and you don’t know who else may be coming along on the date that you don’t know about.  For all you know, her crazy ex-husband is following her or she may have set up some plan with a couple thugs ahead of time.  Meet in a public place and stay in the public eye until you have had the opportunity to really get a feel for what she is after before you take things back to your place.

While following these five tips is no guarantee that you will find the perfect woman, it will certainly reduce your chances of hooking up with a lunatic or otherwise getting yourself screwed over.  So, use them wisely and have fun!

If you enjoy watching porn as most guys do, you have likely seen at least one video that shows a woman who is so turned on and so orgasmic that she actually shoots cum all over the place. Or, even if you haven’t seen it on video, you have probably heard stories about female ejaculation from your buddies or elsewhere. But, more than likely, none of these guys has ever been with a woman who was a squirter. Rather, they have probably just heard of this phenomenon and may even talk about it as if they hope to some day find the ever-elusive squirting woman.

So, if you haven’t been with a woman who sprays cum all over the place and no one you know has been with a squirter, does this woman even exist? I am here to tell you that these women are definitely out there and that, with a little patience and experimentation, you may even be able to make it happen.

What is Female Ejaculation?

Female ejaculation is a phenomenon that is the matter of much debate in the scientific community. Not surprisingly, it is pretty difficult to observe female ejaculation and to capture the liquid that is expelled. After all, this would involve hooking up several contraptions to the woman and possibly to her partner, all of which can seriously get in the way of arousal. In addition, most women who self-report ejaculation say they have little to no control over when or if it happens. Therefore, it there are never any guarantees it will actually happen while being studied.

When the fact that it is difficult to study female ejaculation is combined with our society’s tendency to dismiss the sexuality of women, it is easy to understand why some scientists don’t believe it happens at all. According to one woman I spoke to, however, it definitely does occur and the fluid that is expelled certainly is not the same as urine. The limited research that has been conducted appears to support this fact.

Although urine and female ejaculation are both expelled through the urethra, the liquid released during sexual stimulation contains chemicals known as PSA and PAP. Both of these chemicals are produced from a gland that is referred to as the “female prostate,” though some scientists refuse to believe that this gland even exists. The female prostate is similar to the male prostate in that it can result in great pleasure when properly stimulated. In many cases, the female prostate is actually hidden behind the fleshy area that is referred to as the “G-spot.” So, when you stimulate the G-spot, you are also stimulating the female prostate.

PSA and PAP are also found in the urine of women, but they are found in larger quantities in the ejaculate. So, although there are some similarities between urine and female ejaculate, they are still quite different and should not be thought of as the same thing.

Can All Women Ejaculate?

In theory, it is possible for any woman to become a squirter. Since all women have the same physiological makeup, it should be possible to stimulate any women in such a way that it will cause her juices to explode. In practice, however, most research in the matter has found that less than 50% of women ejaculate. Among those that do, many of them only do on occasion. At the same time, there are some women who squirt on a fairly regular basis.

There is some research indicating that women with stronger pelvic muscles are more likely to be able to ejaculate. Similarly, those women with the greatest control of those muscles have a better chance of making it happen. This is because the rhythmic contraction of these muscles helps work the fluid out of the body. While clitoral stimulation and other steps can be taken to arouse her to the point where these muscles contract on their own, a woman who is able to contract her muscles whenever she likes can help move the process along.

“I squirt almost every time my husband and I have sex,” says 33-year-old Sharon. “At first, I would help make it happen by squeezing my pussy muscles over and over again during sex. I really just did it because it felt good for both of us when I would squeeze his dick like that, but I soon found that it also helped make me cum.”

It is also possible that the physical changes that occur as a woman ages may help her transform into a squirter or that she has to be with the same partner for awhile before it happens.

“I didn’t start squirting until I was about 31 and until after I had been with my husband for about seven years,” continues Sharon. “The first time it happened, we were on vacation with the kids at Disney World and he was eating me out. Before I knew it, I was squirting all over his face. I didn’t even know it was coming. It was quite the shock for both of us. Disney truly is a magical place!”

How Can I Make My Woman Squirt?

While there is no guaranteed way to make your woman squirt, there are a few steps you can take. First, you need to make certain she is relaxed and comfortable with you. She also has to lose in inhibitions and not be afraid of “making a mess” or seeming less feminine. Honestly, this is usually the biggest obstacle you will have to overcome because many women have a difficult time completely giving into their sexuality.

You are also going to have to take your time getting her worked up, so there will be no minute man action going on here, hot shot. You will need to start with some clitoral stimulation, rubbing and caressing of the body and whatever else gets your woman going. Look for her G-spot, which usually feels a bit rougher than the other flesh inside, while continuing with the clitoral stimulation. He may also want to encourage her to squeeze your fingers repeatedly with her pelvic muscles. Not only will this increase her pleasure, it will feel pretty damn cool for you too.

“After my Disney experience, I realized that squeezing my muscles helped increase my chances of getting a squirt,” Sharon says. “But, after awhile of encouraging the juices to flow, I often get a squirter without having to do anything to encourage it. In fact, there are many times that I explode almost immediately after my husband sticks his dick in me and I will often have several more eruptions before we’re done. The sheets are a mess, but who the hell cares?”

If you ask me, cleaning up some messy sheets is certainly worth the rewards.