It’s nothing but just a mental blockage that men create by themselves. This fear can be thrown away to make a move towards making a casual friend which could hopefully develop into a romantic relationship. Asking someone out is a hard move for a lot of people, as all men regardless of their age, good looks or confidence always fear rejection. It is always seemed that asking someone out or approaching someone by starting a conversation takes a little courage, hence if you are approaching someone then your way should be polite.

There are some common fears that all men have while approaching someone out, such as whether she is interested in me? Whether I m attractive to her or not? What if she is in a relationship already? What if she rejects me in front of everybody? Now, in order to get rid of all these useless thoughts, you first have to stop thinking what other people will think about you. Think how you feel for yourself and what makes you happy. Instead of feeling low and down in this kind of situation, you should enjoy every bit of it to the fullest. You should always feel good about yourself and it will help to boost your confidence and will provide a charming personality. The people with pleasant personality always attract others. People enjoy being around those who are fun loving and know how to make every moment of life count.

In order to start a conversation to a woman, first learn how to take lead in it. By focusing on the person in front of you, you will not get stage fright and feel shy. What you will be talking to person will create a background of direction to present attitudes and emotions against. If you are keeping the interest of the person, then you will be reacting with your emotions and attitudes toward whatever is being said.

It is not always hard to move ahead and just say hello, if you know how to move. But if you are talking to someone whom you want to get attracted to, then of course it’s harder. Most men think that in order to start a conversation with someone, you have to say something very intelligent which is just a wrong idea. First, learn how to start with casual and relaxed conversations which will possiblly lead to the next level.

1.Do not initiate any conversation online from your end. Let the guy approach you. Often girls or women who approach guys online are considered to be available and are not taken seriously.

2.There can be many situations in which you might not like the attitude or character of a certain person online in the chat room. Block him immediately. There is no need to entertain unwanted people.

3.In case there is an option to post a photograph then opt for the best picture you have of yourself. Never post a celebrity’s picture. It does not look nice.

4.In case there is any guy interested in you and approaches you through instant message or email then there is no need to reply immediately. Again try and show that you are not waiting for some guy.

5.In case you are interested in a guy who has approached you via e mail then do not reply immediately. Wait for at least two days before replying to that mail. If he is really interested in you, he will wait for your reply.

6.It is highly advisable not to share your real demographic details, name, telephone numbers in first go.

7.Keep a separate e mail address for such things. Never use your original personal e mail id for online dating.

8.Never lie about anything related to your appearance, size or locality. It is better to avoid subjects which you do not want to discuss rather than lying about them. You never know if your conversation gets to the next level.

9.Everything should be slow and gradual in case of online dating. Do not jump to the conclusions about a guy you met in a chat room. Take your own time before you decide to meet him in person.

Online dating is pretty popular amongst all segments of ages across globe. There are positive side to it and negative as well. It is always better to take prevention rather than cure. So, be cautious while you flirt with men online. Disclosing a lot of information to an unknown man can be dangerous hence it should always be kept in mind that the online dating process is very slow ad needs to be treated in a slow manner.

She would say that her boyfriend never kissed her during love making and rarely goes down her. Most of the time, he would be finished before her and that’s the most terrible thing.

It is quite certain that men too have their own wish list like that of a woman and it is important that women too understand this. This is one of the most important things to be remembered in a sex session.

My reply for her was that she could try to pick up the thoughts of her boyfriend perhaps telepathically which intensified our conversation in this direction.

Women always blame men for being too bad in sex in the bed, but it is interesting to note that there may be problem from her side as well which she would never realize. This is one of the frequent complaints aired out by many girlfriends, colleagues and also strangers or roommates which I think creates a big list of fantasies which every woman would like to have at that very moment and perhaps all the men in the world can be given a copy of it.

Here are some of those points I put forward so that every man can take a cue from it and increase their chances of having a better sex life with their partners.

Giving full focus to her

This may look more like a sex tip rather than a lustful fantasy. Almost every woman wishes to have her man focus on her complete body. Every woman wishes her man to kiss and lick each and every inch of her body including vagina. She would love to have that sensation derived from kissing elsewhere on her body too.

It is not a bad idea at all to kiss her inner thigh or taking some time in concentrating on some other area of her body. She is sure to do the same thing to you as well.

Having more oral sex

Many woman wish to have longer and more oral sex not to mention, the importance of vocal here. Almost every woman wishes to direct her partner to lick her up at every possible spot on her body and give out that much needed moaning noise to indicate that the job is well done or is being done perfectly. Some women also drive down to her man and perform the same on him with an idea that he would do the same to her. They actually are looking for the directions. Woman love to hear noises of pleasure when doing the sex job for their man, which assures them of their good job.

It should be understood from this act of a woman what she really wants on the bed. They would love to have you do all the work with your tongue roaming on their body. They would love to have you use your fingers, tongue and mouth all over their body and penetrate them with your penis whenever necessary for a little while and get back to the mouth job again.

Give her a different treatment

Woman fantasies are just not catchable. A typical woman would love a different treatment from her man on the bed. It is quite clear from several conversations on sex with woman, how they wish to be treated, woman have always voted to be treated like prostitutes to have raunchy and steamy sex with their partners. They wish to have a steamy conversation on sex with their male partners when the session is on. Woman love to be ravished like animals by men and be treated like animals in bed.

There are several women out there who wish to be slutty in the bedroom and could not describe it due to lack of words. Their only fear is getting lesser respect if they show out their thoughts on sex to their men. Most women also fear that if they show out their thoughts then they would be treated in the same fashion out of bedroom as well.

Use flowery talk

Many woman love the feeling of being played on their bodies with mouth and fingers. They also love a different type of talk in the bedrooms which was mentioned as dirty talk by most of them. They wish their partners to be nasty in the bedroom and use some kind of colorful language describing them so that they get along with the partners in sex. Much of the talk is not to be outspoken and can be easily censored but one should picture and imagine such a situation and I believe it is not so difficult as well.

Getting more aggressive in sex

Women love to describe their partners as aggressive sex partners. They wish their partners to tie them up, spank them and also have their hair pulled and treat them with all kinds of cruelties in bed. Women simply love to have aggressive sex with their male partners.

It does not mean that you should be so cruel to your partner out of bedroom. Every lady wishes to have aggressive partner in bed to have a memorable sex with him. A little roughing up in the bed is sure to work wonders. Woman only want to see aggressiveness in their men based on the occasion and not at all circumstances.

Including the topics of ex’s in the conversation

If your intention is to get along with that hot lady at the bar, there are chances that you might be thinking about making some of your personal feelings known to her. You should understand that a woman is sensitive, loves chat and emotional as well. She can appreciate a man who is genuine in making his emotions known to her. Any topics associated with ex partners may not be so entertaining to her. This may result in a negative outcome in the case. Bringing up topics of ex partners is one of those serious mistakes one may be committing in such conversations. In fact such conversations which are first of its kind need to be filled with fun and should be of light natured. They are not supposed to carry heavy weight topics and deal with emotions of partners.

Topics on money

It is quite well known that women are attracted towards status and wealth. Women are most commonly driven towards men driving expensive cars or to those who have a rich inherited wealth. It does not mean that you can stop trying out your chance to get her. There are certain things that you should keep in mind while dealing with topics on wealth in conversations with woman. This is one of the biggest conversation mistake made by men. Don’t ever bring up the topic of money and don’t ever toot up your own horn in such circumstances.

Try out lesser flirting acts

There are several guys out there trying to pull the attention of that woman whom you are trying to charm. Try out some good acts related to flirting or charming. But make sure that the acts are genuine and devoid of any drama as such. Genuine acts can place you well apart from the rest of the guys in the crowd vying for the woman you wish to charm. It should be understood that the lesser you act in front of a woman, the more you drag her. Your acts of flirting should be genuine and honest and should be attempted in less numbers. No woman will be totally taken away by flattery because women have brains to understand the meaning behind them. If a conversation is taken out, keep it natural and make her known in simple terms that you appreciate her and are more curious to know about her. Make her known that you are interested in talking to her.

Listen more and talk less

It can be a big mistake if you focus deeply on your mission to charm the lady. It is good to have her attention dragged towards you, but there are certain things one should remember in doing so. Do always concentrate on the wood alone, there are also the trees out there. you should try to understand what is going on with her before carving out your strategy. In doing so, you should make it a point to lend a listening ear to her. Listen and acknowledge whatever she has to say. Stop talking more and pay attention to her. Every woman is impressed by a man who listens to her more than any other man who keeps on bluffing out his nonsense and his greatness.

Don’t overstay on conversation

There is always a limit for the time in a conversation. No conversation can keep on going for long. If you had a good time with the lady and are lucky enough in dragging quite a long conversation, it is important that you make her develop the keenness in having the second conversation with you. Before she makes it a point to move away from you and is exhausted with your conversation, it is important that you conclude the conversation prematurely so that you leave behind the aspect of mystery in the conversation which should drag her to have a second conversation with you. Try acting as if you have got some friends waiting for you and you are supposed to leave to catch up with them and any other strategy so that you can end the conversation prematurely. Though the conversation may be leading to a good stuff, it is advisable not to drag it further ahead lest that the lady starts feeling bored. This act may prompt her to return back to you for another conversation.